Sunday, December 25, 2016

LEARN 2 DANCE! The European Edition

Merry Christmas...times two! This is our Christmas present to all our nieces and nephews for both last year (2015) and this year (2016). Though our nieces and nephews may not remember, we didn't give any of them a Christmas present last year :( But know that we were thinking of all of you throughout our adventures in Sweden and across Europe. In each country we visited we made a little present for you. It's just taken us a while to finally give it to you! So this present is two years in the making and we very much hope you enjoy it.

You'll be getting a DVD of this in the near future (this part is still actually in the making) but this is the digital version of...

LEARN 2 DANCE!
with Boom and Stephanie
The European Edition


Below are four different dances that we learned and danced in four different countries! We also taught each dance for you so you could share in the fun. Every dance has a cultural connection to a country we visited during our adventures across Europe last year when we were living in Sweden. Each has two parts: 1) A lesson where we teach you how to do the dance and 2) a video of us dancing that very dance across the country the dance came from! Watch, learn, dance, and enjoy :)

Estonia

The Lesson

The Dance

Norway

The Lesson
(Note that the end got cutoff of this one. It'll be fixed on the DVD version)

The Dance

Hungary

The Lesson

The Dance

Austria

The Lesson

The Dance

Monday, December 28, 2015

On the Fourth Day of Christmas...

...another blog post was finally published :)

We have very much been missing family and friends recently however we're so happy that some family, John and Annie and baby Betsy, just arrived yesterday (on the third day of Christmas) to visit us here in Sweden! We're excited to celebrate New Years with them but below are some pictures from how we celebrated the first day of Christmas in Salzburg, Austria. We'll try and post more about this trip (as well as our trip to Gothenburg and the rest of our Budapest trip) soon.







One quick note: we ended up watching "The Nativity Story" (the one released in 2006) on Christmas Eve. It was a good movie and the most interesting aspect was how it addressed the social situation that Mary and Joseph might have endured from the Annunciation to the birth of Jesus. It brought a new depth to the words you read and hear but sometimes find hard to imagine in terms of what the experience might have actually been like. We appreciated that, and the movie in general, as it helped focus some of our thoughts and prayers over the holiday.

We love and miss all of you. Merry Christmas and keep celebrating because there are still 8 days left!

Thursday, December 10, 2015

Trip #5 - A Hungary Thanksgiving (part 1)

Budapest, Hungary is Budaful!!!!!  We had a glorious 5 day stay in the 'Buda' side of the Danube (did you know they were originally two different cities, Buda, and Pest? we didn't!) to celebrate Thanksgiving. Our original hopes of  celebrating the holiday in Istanbul with our dear friend Lexi fell through (we didn't feel traveling in Turkey was the safest option under current conditions) but we were able to feast in a different appropriately named country.

We really didn't know much about Budapest before we visited (not even that it was two different cities!) so we did what we do before we visit anywhere we don't know much about... watch the "Rick Steves tours Europe" 28 minute episode on the city. This has actually become a nerdy and quite fun tradition of ours, we have become QUITE familiar with Rick Steves, and we really don't feel prepared to travel until we've gotten Ricks travel tips on that particular area

We noticed major things during our cab ride from the airport. 1- Budapest is very big. much bigger (both in city size, and in landscape/architecture/building size) than any of the other cities we have visited thus far. 2- Hungarian is the most bizarre/orc from Lord of the Rings sounding language we have ever heard. I was actually quite nervous in the cab ride, the area and the driver seemed SO foreign, and the cab man sounded angry guttural and harsh as he spoke into his car phone. (in reality he was none of those things)

My fears were alleviated as we arrived at our charming hotel. We stayed in a small one man run 'b and b' type place with amazing views. As I mentioned earlier we were in the Buda or castle district which is on the 'sleepy' side of the river, but right across (the river) from the  parliament. Wow is it stunning! After getting settled in the hotel we decided to walk around a bit, get a coffee, but take it easy, rest up, and really hit the city the next day. The moment we walked out the door however, Pest beckoned us! Our hotel was about a 15 minute walk from the iconic "chain bridge" (first bridge in budapest) which was a mere 10 minute walk into the heart of Pest. and so began what would be a 6 hour walk around the city. During the walk we discovered our next very important fact about the city- the food is delicious and sooooo cheap!!! Hurray! What a welcome change from Stockholm prices. We soon realized the theme of this vacation would be eating as frequently and as much as possible. (we were celebrating Thanksgiving after all!)

We stumbled upon St. Stephen's (the first King of Hungary) basilica, and wow! What a basilica!!!! The exterior is impressive, but the interior glitters from floor to ceiling. I was quite overwhelmed with the detail and extensive beauty of the church, I knew I couldn't take it all in in just one visit, and decided we definitely needed to come back.... which we did not do! Remember what we discovered in Tallinn? If you see something you want to do or buy- do our buy it IMMEDIATELY because you probably won't come back. Sigh. So we didn't tour the dome, or take any pictures- but thank goodness we wandered around inside at all!!

Thanksgiving day itself was mostly just about eating. (again, as it should be) We certainly missed family, but busied ourselves with finding and eating all the delicious food that we could. Christmas Market season is in full swing in most of Europe right now, and Hungary was no exception. We enjoyed plenty of mulled wine, hot toddys, sausages and paprika chicken (paprika is HUGE in Hungary, it is in almost every dish, and everyone in Hungary is very very proud of their paprika) wandering around the markets, but we also ate in a nice restaurant where we were able to order a turkey dish. hurray!

The two days following Thanksgiving were on polar ends of stress levels. Black Friday was amaaaaaaazing. We spent about 4 hours in the famous Szechenyi bath spa and it did not disappoint! (once I found out Budapest is considered the Spa capital of the world, there was no holding me back!) The turkish style spa is beautiful and lovely, and with the cold weather the outdoor pools filled the area with a magical steam, transforming the spa into a wonderland! Kitty enjoyed the wonderland in her snowsuit, while Mommy and Daddy took turns going in and out of the pools. We ended the day feeling pampered and relaxed, which maybe made the next day all the more cruel...

That Saturday we wandered around the castle district (where lies the most beautiful fairy tale princesses palace area you will ever encounter... actually a church) and kept seeing signs for "the labyrinth" a series of caves and passageways under the castle walls have a long (and mostly spooky) history. I'm sure Andrew will dive into that, I want to focus on the most terrifying ten minutes (could have been 5, could have been 20... but they were all HORRIBLE). As we were walking around the dimly lit network of cave passageways, we came to a branch in the path. To the left continued the strange moist walkways we had been wandering through for the last 15 minutes. To the right, darkness. But a sign that said (roughly) "You are on your own through this hallway of fear. people have encounters mists, sudden drops of temperature , explainable flashes of light... any number of things supernatural may occur in this hallway of absolute darkness. We will provide you a string to guide you through the twists and turns of the maze, but beyond that when fear grips you in this hallway you have only yourself to turn to." Andrew told me "we are absolutely doing this" so, with Kitty strapped onto me, I reached for the string, Andrew grabbed my hand, and we entered the corridor. (I am honestly a bit quesey and my heart is beating faster just typing this) I have never encountered darkness the way I did in this hallway. Absolute pitch black. darker than black. it was so horrible. Not long after we entered, the path started twisting, and all remnant of light from the entrance dissipated. we had no idea how big of a space we were in, or how long it was, or if there was even a way out. Thank goodness I kept my hand tight to the string, because we soon encountered a cold stone wall. It seemed we were trapped. I started to hyperventilate. I said "Andrew I want to go back!!!!!" I really thought I might have a panic attack- but as my breath came shorter and shorter I told myself "hold it together Stephanie!!!!!!! you have your one year old daughter strapped to you, you cannot keep her safe if you collapse!" (Kitty was crying at this point- it was so dark, she kept twisting around trying to see me... it was awful.) We knew we couldn't turn around, because there could have been people behind us, we were so disoriented we didn't know how long we had been walking, and we didn't know how tight the tunnel was. I followed the string, and we were able to find a space we could continue through- in absolute misery. I wouldn't let go of Andrews hand... which was good (nessessary in fact) for me, but it didn't allow Andrew to hold the string, so I had to talk to him the whole way, saying, "turning right" "going up hill" "slanting down" (there were times when the string dropped almost to the floor, so I hand to bend and stoop as I walked to make sure my hand didn'nt lose contact) Just when I thought things couldn't get worse, I started hearing creepy music. Out of nowhere, there came haunting dischords, and I thought I was going to lose it again. Andrew said the music was comical. I did not agree. It worked on me. when we finally reached the end of the tunnel, I wanted to cry, and laugh, and sleep for about 50 hours straight.  We still had to make it out of the labyrinth though, which included a trip to Dracula's prison cell- the dim room full of torture devices seemed like a cozy five star hotel after what we had just been through. Ooof. I actually feel a bit strained and stressed after writing about that... think I need to take a break from this post. I'm sure you will hear about the rest of Budapest (complete with pictures) soon from Andrew. whhheeeeew. Everybody go turn on lots of lights!!!!!!

Friday, December 4, 2015

Stephanie, Laska, and Kateri Are Famous

And by famous I mean they were written about our city (Solna, Sweden) newspaper. They were doing a piece on dogs and their owners and Stephanie was eyed as a perfect candidate by the reporter. The newspaper is called "Vi i Solna" which roughly translates to "We Solna" or "We in Solna." However that's not the only roughly translated part of this story as we think some things were "lost in translation" when Stephanie was interviewed at the dog park.
 

Yet another piece of rough translation (this at the fault of Andrew and Google):
Laska with mom Stephanie Thigpen and daughter Kateri:
"Laska is an Australian Shepherd and is two years old. It's the first dog that I and my husband have. We got him to prepare ourselves for children. It's good training, for a dog is more demanding than a child. A child only poops in the diaper but a dog must be taken out all the time. He's happy and spirited and an integral part of our family. He means sooo much. We moved to Solna from the USA in August and it was obvious that Laska come with us."

Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Trip #3 - Copenhagen

We just returned from a wonderful Thanksgiving trip to Hungary (challenge: figure out why that is funny) and this blog is sorely out of date. For that we apologize but life just happens sometimes. We're going to be better at making updates but, for now, here's what we did a month-and-a-half ago in mid-October! We visited the wonderful city of Copenhagen in the nearby country of Denmark.


Starting things early
We had to drop Laska off the evening before because our flight to Copenhagen left early in the morning at like 8:40am. Getting up early is not our strong suit. It's not actually our suit at all, more like a costume. So what I'm really trying to say is that getting up early is not our strong costume. Luckily we did all get up early enough to make it to the delayed train (which we even would have made if it wasn't) to the Stockholm Arlanda airport...with about an hour to spare. That was due to Andrew's miscalculation of exactly how long it takes to traverse all the everything and make it through airport security. So we decided to get some breakfast...I mean it wasn't even 8am! So we looked at the available places and, lo and behold. Swedish venues only really had Swedish breakfast, aka sandwiches, cold meats, lots of bread, fish, you know, just all the yummy things you think of at breakfast time. So we surveyed the options and opted for a pub that we thought had an egg (breakfast!) sandwich. It didn't so we just got a normal sandwich you'd expect to eat at lunch. And a bloody mary and some champagne with some orange juice. Of note: this glass of champagne + the orange juice was the most expensive drink we have yet to purchase on our trip. I guess we were starting out early.

Kitty was awake this whole time. We had thought she would sleep on the train. Then we thought she'd fall asleep before our flight. Then we thought she'd sleep on the flight. Well she didn't each time so it was quite the active morning. Flying with Kitty got significantly more difficult when she became accustomed to conscious movement. I always liked the phrase "Infant In Arms" but Kateri has grown out of it. It was a good thing Stephanie and I had that drink instead of coffee because it definitely didn't make us feel more tired ;)

We arrived in a rain cloud, tired but ready to see what we could see. We would find that, despite the consistently poor weather and initial tiredness, we'd come to really enjoy Copenhagen.

What is Copenhagen like?
Copenhagen is a flat city. Very fat. Notably flat actually. As in, apart from bridges, you very rarely felt like you were walking up or down an incline. Our hop-on-hop-off bus tour actually mentioned it because it is indeed notable. This is quite different from Solna (where we live), Stockholm, and basically every other place in Sweden and every other place we've visited since being here. It made walking around a bit less strenuous but we've confirmed that we are rolling hill people, we like our bumpy topography.

The height of the buildings reminded me of Washington DC. There seemed to be a "no higher than" limit on the buildings that was similar to DC's (though definitely . It made things seem more open and, though we never once saw the sun while here, the streets all received brightness from the sky. It was super pleasant just like the pleasant aspect of building height you get walking around DC. It somehow speaks to age and, in a way, respect or at least a kind of consideration for something that we appreciate. I guess it's just easiest to say it's pleasant and that Stephanie and I both prefer that feel to the downtown of a city. After also visiting Budapest (more on that later) I realize this feel is definitely European, which makes me rethink what I typed - rather than Copenhagen reminding me of DC, I think DC now might just remind me of Europe!

Copenhagen doesn't really have an "old town." Meaning that it doesn't have a specific section or area or location that is uniquely different from the surrounding areas where older buildings are preserved. So there is nothing like Stockholm's Gamla Stan (Old Town) or the Old Town of Tallinn (where we stayed while we were there). What we found was that, rather than having the "new" surround the "old," Copenhagen seemed to have preserved and gently updated the old to be the new. This isn't to say that some modern architectural elements don't exist there as their new opera house is super not-old looking, but the general feeling of the entire city we ventured around to felt older than new but not medieval. Once again, it was a pleasant feel.

The weather, however, was not so very pleasant. Rainy and cloudy with a touch of wind. Andrew (i.e. the person writing this, it helps to refer to myself in third person when I'm offering a critique of myself) didn't pack optimally for this weather but luckily Stephanie and Kateri did. It really only hampered some of the views or the sites rather than

Tivoli Gardens
Not your typical "gardens," think Disneyland, Busch Gardens, Six Flags, or Valleyfair. But smaller (like 1/20 the size) and more distinctly European (as in a bit more confusing, I think both genuinely and also because we're used to how America does things). We were told it is second in the world only to Disneyland in popularity (i.e. number of seasonal visitors) for a theme park. It's also the second oldest theme park in the world and is said to have inspired Walt Disney in his design of Disneyland. So why did we go here? Well, we initially went because we thought there was a children's show that we could take Kitty to. This wasn't the case but we did see a pretty funny show (in Danish) about a super popular Pippi Longstocking type character named Rasmus Klump (renamed Petzi in English for who-knows-what reason) - a gigantic bear that's a mix between Curious George and Barney. Kitty was enthralled with the show but didn't quite know what to think of him in person:

We also just wanted to visit the place because, after all, it's second only to Disneyland. We only spent a couple of hours inside but we really did have a wonderful time! They were all decorated for Halloween and the Fall so that was an interesting overlay to the attractions.

The best part was walking along and seeing a mountain! I'm not too sure if you remember me mentioning but Copenhagen is flat! Leave it to an amusement park to add topography:

On our way to searching for this peak (never did find it) we found a wonderful German restaurant crammed in a tiny alleyway with so many other shops and restaurants. It was a really wonderful walk that actually led us directly out the door and on our way to church (it was Saturday but were headed to the only English mass we found in the outskirts of the city).

Oh yeah, side note: right outside the entrance to Tivoli was the restaurant where we ordered for Kateri off the kids menu for the first time! We still have that menu actually, one of her favorites. For those that care, it was a ground-steak-burger-patty that Andrew and Stephanie ate most of :)

A boat ride
We did take a hop-on-hop-off bus tour that was a little "meh" but the boat tour we took was very wonderful. I think this is an example of how Stepanie and I greatly prefer a tour guided by a live human (boat) rather than a recorded human (bus). The height of the boat itself was extremely low so it could go underneath bridges with low clearance (also true in Stockholm and I assume other cities like Amsterdam) but the windows extended into the roof so you could roll them "up" (i.e. up and inwards) to actually be able to stand up and look around with a full 360 degree view. Pretty nifty.

The boat ride took us all around the main sites: the Opera house (that people "cliff dive" off of sometime), Christianhavn (an island district that doesn't seem like an island and contains all the hipsters), the Little Mermaid (yes, she was actually quite little), and lots of important buildings (royal palaces, parliamentary buildings, etc.). I don't have any specific memories except to say that we're glad we did it.




We actually got off the boat tour one stop early so we could take a free tour to the top of the parliament building. The free part let you get a 360 degree view of Copenhagen from up on high. It was quite hazy and overcast (we couldn't see Sweden which you can on clear days, specifically a building in the nearby town of Malmo called the "Turning Torso") but it was still great nonetheless. Here is where a true sense of the height of the buildings was quite apparent. You'd probably have the same view in DC as if you were standing on the top of the Washington monument. We ended up having a drink in the fancy-pantsy restaurant that's in the Parliament in this area that seemed like steps to nowhere (just a window) but was extremely pleasant. Kitty loved the stairs. They were dusty.


Feet-eating fish
So we walked by this sign while meandering along the pedestrian shopping walkway through Copenhagen that had an interesting explanation written on the wall:

Needless to say, Stephanie desperately wanted to try this out (Andrew not so much. Kateri was ). Well, I'll leave it to this video to describe the whole experience.

Note: Stephanie got to drink a nice glass of Champagne as these little fishes made her feet all soft.

In conclusion...
We did more than what we mentioned here, but in summary we really thoroughly enjoyed our time in Copenhagen. We both thought we'd prefer living here than in Stockholm in the realm of hypothetical "what if." It was just a very pleasant city that felt accessible, dynamic, aged, and not hugely intimidating. Now if the weather was always the same, we'd probably change our opinion but for now we're sticking with it :)




Thursday, November 5, 2015

Quick Update

Due to sketchy internet connections on my computer at the apartment, a delightful visit from Atlanta from farmor and farfar (John and Judy), an ever busy little one year old, and vet visits and medication for a sick pup, we have fallen WAY behind on our blog!

We had a quick trip to Copenhagen in the middle of October, just before John and Judy arrived to celebrate Kitty's birthday (and my birthday, and Andrews... and Halloween... and Christmas:)  Copenhagen was cloudy- as is all of Scandinavia these days, but really really cool- more on that trip later.

After had two glorious (for the most part glorious, there was a very rough patch in the middle where almost everyone fell ill) weeks of rediscovering Stockholm with John and Judy, Andrew and I now have our hands quite full with taking care of our sick doggie.

Little Laska concerned us with some weird red spots- a bug bite looking mark on his chest, and a little bleeding wound under his eye. Vet visits are quite expensive here (pet insurance is mandatory for most animals, we are realizing why!) so before we made an appointment, I walked him to the nearby office/pet boutique store so the worker could have a look. She wasn't overly concerned, and suggested just waiting, that if more spots appeared, or they didn't go away, we should make an appointment, but for now it could just be a scrape or a non threatening bug bite.

 The next morning, Laska was openly bleeding from multiple lesions on his face. We went to the vet asap and learned that Laska has a disease called "collie nose" (unofficial term) common in dogs with little pigment on their nose/face area. untreated, these lesions never heal and can turn into cancer- scary! He had about five little spots on his face (ranging from the size of a pencil eraser to the size of a penny) that were swollen and raw, oozing and bleeding- yuck! He is being treated with topical cream and antibiotics, as well as condemned to wearing a cone for ten days. Our hearts are just broken for him!

Our established routine is a bit disturbed now, as dog park is not an option while he heals, and our small apartment is made even more uncomfortable for Laska as he has a gigantic cone around his neck, barring normal movement... and he has to be on constant surveillance to insure that he doesn't damage the healing on his face.

This unfortunate situation, combined with the dreary dark Swedish fall is making for a rather somber November. Just last night we were brainstorming about ways to make the days more cheery (the sun now sets at about 3:30) So far we have come up with 1.Make sure we exercise. 2. Drink lots of wine. We are open for suggestions and prayers and well wishes from everyone!

Happily our darling little one year old is unaltered by the lack of sunshine. She is happy, healthy, and busy as ever! Her latest game is pretending to eat things. A game that is alarming for Mommy and Daddy quite often as we are constantly checking if she is ACTUALLY putting this in her mouth and chewing, or just pretending. Most often she is pretending. And she is very generous, she 'feeds' Mommy, Daddy, and Laska her pretend treats all the time, and giggles away as we join in her game. All the fake food must be giving her lots of energy, because she is wants to walk everywhere! Getting places occurs at a much slower pace these days, as little girl insist on holding our hands and putzing her own self forward one wobbly foot at a time. Andrew and I have just accepted the fact that we will officially always be late to everything- and our lower backs will always be hurting. Small price to pay for the joy on Kateri's face with each and every little step.

We love everyone back home, and are really starting to miss you all!!

Sunday, October 25, 2015

First Year

First hour: 

First day: 

First week: 

First month: 

First Christmas (first tutu):

First flight (first class :):

First Easter: 

First passport/international trip: 

First year: 

Second tutu...be continued: